[Durham INC] Personal Attacks

[John Martin]

Christine,
I'm sorry your 10 year old was in the emergency room.  I hope all is well now.  I appreciate your participation in INC and on this listserv.
Darius, 
I also appreciate your participation in INC and on this listserv.
Everyone,
As INC President and one of the listserv administrators, I'm now calling a halt to any more observations on the personal characteristics of other members of the listserv.  If you want to discuss land use planning and floodplains, that's fine.  But please refrain from any more discussion of the personal qualities (or defects) of other members.
I will, as a last resort, suspend the listserv privileges on individuals ignoring this.
And I am also not interested in a discussion of who started it.  It is finished.
Thanks, and happy holidays.
John

--- On Sat, 12/24/11, Darius Mercedes Little <Darius.M.Little at alumni.unc.edu> wrote:

From: Darius Mercedes Little <Darius.M.Little at alumni.unc.edu>
Subject: Re: [Durham INC] This mornings emails... and the emergency room
To: "Christine Chamberlain" <christinebbd at yahoo.com>, "Darius Little" <darius.m.little at alumni.unc.edu>, "inc listserv" <inc-list at durhaminc.org>
Date: Saturday, December 24, 2011, 1:43 PM

I'm very calm, as everyone on this list serv knows firsthand from dealing with me on numerous items.  

I will not, however, allow you to disrespect me and make personal, immature jabs at me without calling you on it - bc you disagree on a matter.

You need a break.  You stated to have had an emergency - yet you're posting on the list serv.  Habitually.  I rarely post.

I responded to the list serv bc that is how you posted. 

If you want to speak to me, you do it directly.  The "issue" is dead, so if you wish to continue discussing it, spare the list serv of the drivel and email me directly.

- Darius




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Darius M. Little
Executive Business Consultant and
Strategic Marketing Analyst

(web) www.linkedin.com/in/dariuslittle

Manta Business Profile/Report: 

http://www.manta.com/c/mtlwj1m/little-s-business-consultingFrom:  Christine Chamberlain <christinebbd at yahoo.com>
Date: Sat, 24 Dec 2011 10:39:41 -0800 (PST)To: Darius.M.Little at alumni.unc.edu<Darius.M.Little at alumni.unc.edu>; inc listserv<inc-list at durhaminc.org>ReplyTo:  Christine Chamberlain <christinebbd at yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: [Durham INC] This mornings emails... and the emergency room
 oh brother...  I hope you'll be able to calm down now.  Really, take a break from the keyboard for awhile.

Christine Chamberlain
       From: Darius Mercedes Little <Darius.M.Little at alumni.unc.edu>
 To: Christine Chamberlain <christinebbd at yahoo.com>; inc listserv <inc-list at durhaminc.org> 
 Sent: Saturday, December 24, 2011 1:29 PM
 Subject: Re: [Durham INC] This mornings emails... and
 the emergency room
  

My remarks were directed to you, not Melissa.  

Your inaccurate statements about me, as well as your remarks to the Planning Commission and City Council (specifically, asking when will they "learn their lesson" about protecting flood plains, etc.)  have done nothing but further support the impression of your being impulsive, on this list serv.

And despite your consistent knack for being impulsive and quick to make personal attacks, I've attempted to repeatedly give you benefit of the doubt in your remarks.

I'm not a Pit Bull, or any other of your animals.  Refer to me as Darius, or Mr. Little.

Lastly, as a member of INC who is concerned about our ability to be effective, yes, I am concerned when impulsive individuals just go jumping on a matter, after having done no research.  Melissa brought the matter to our attention to discuss and look at, in resolution efforts  - "you" ran and sent an inflammatory
 email to our Planning Commission and City Council.

Merry Christmas.  

- Darius






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Darius M. Little
Executive Business Consultant and
Strategic Marketing Analyst

(web) www.linkedin.com/in/dariuslittle

Manta Business Profile/Report: 

http://www.manta.com/c/mtlwj1m/little-s-business-consulting


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